There are two couples: Kim and Tom,
Janet and Pat. Each couple handles a problem differently. For Kim and Tom, when
they argue, they refuse to talk and give each other a silent treatment. On the
other hand, Janet and Pat refer a conversation to solve their problem. It turns
out that Kim and Tom’s relationship only lasts for a year, while Janet and Pat are
getting married.
Speech
seems more effective in the relationship. True communication allows deep
understanding and respect for each other. Silence causes separation among us. Here,
I don’t include all types of silence. Silence is preferred as it is used to
prepare a positive speech. In other words, we should think before talking to
avoid impulsive speech, actively listen to other without interrupting. Remaining
silent when we should talk creates disunity in the relationship. But appropriate
silence becomes connection among us. Hence, both speech and silence are
important in any relationship.
Love this blog Thuy, I like how you said "Remaining silent when we should talk creates disunity in the relationship" because that is so true!
ReplyDeleteI agree with what what said primarily because silence can be interpreted in so many ways which can easily cause discourse. Speaking also allows people to get over grudges and move on.
ReplyDeleteI completely agree with the post. Reflective speech is the most effective in relationships because silence just doesn't seem like a plausible option. A buildup of emotion occurs through silence until one day it explodes out of you and becomes a giant mess for everyone involved!
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